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Monthly Archives: November 2009

The View from One Interracial Marriage

   Last week, a reader wrote to me about my past entries on interracial marriage and adoption. The reader, Laura H., is a white woman married to a black man. Her husband is in the military in Germany and the entire family lives there.  Here is our exchange, as well as some additional comments by [...]

The Spiritual Alchemy of Oprah

   In a previous post, a reader asked about the reasons for Oprah’s staggering success. I gave a few superficial reasons, and discussion followed. But I did not probe a major factor in this success: Oprah’s role as spiritual leader.  Oprah takes trivial matters, such as fashion, relationships, shopping and cooking, and skillfully blends them with issues of ultimate meaning and destiny. This deft combination of the [...]

The Pop Mysticism of the Palin Candidacy

  There is little doubt at this point that Sarah Palin is running for president. But she is more than an aspiring candidate.  Palin is the spiritual leader of  Desperate America. That is not to say she has no practical talents. She does, but these have very little to do with her appeal. Mystical fervor, born of desperation, is [...]

Miss, Mrs. and Mizzzz

  Mrs. N. comments on the previous post regarding the lamentable ‘Ms.’: I grew up in a small midwestern town that in my mind’s eye was not unlike the fictional town of Mayberry. Unmarried women carried the title Miss. A married woman was addressed by her husband’s first and last name, i.e. Mrs. John Smith. If a [...]

Fasten Your Seat Belts. Let’s Survive this Crash.

  A commenter named Richard W. at View from the Right has a great essay on the inevitable collapse of the federal government. This event is to be welcomed, he argues, and holds out thrilling possibilities for cultural renewal. The behemoth must die. Richard writes: I view our position now as analogous to an airplane which loses its engines [...]

Happy Thanksgiving to You

    For all this                                                                           That shimmers and shines, Rinses and wrings, Settles and sings; For leaf and limb, Oar and wing; For readers fickle and readers true; For all this, Sweet Sovereign, Thanks are due.    

Miss, Mrs., Ms.

  Is it now shameful to be a ‘Mrs.’? When ‘Ms.’ came into use thirty or so years ago, the idea was that it would serve as a title when the marital status of a woman was uncertain or when she preferred to not have it known. Today, it is often used as a catch-all, even for women who [...]

Why Is Oprah So Popular?

  MarkyMark writes: My question is this: Why is Oprah so popular? Why were so many women taken in by her? Why weren’t more women able to see through her and her message? You’re one of the few who has. By the way, I agree with you: Few people have done more to damage American [...]

The Left’s Hatred of Sarah

  See the entry, The Demented Sarah Palin Debate, for discussion of this phenomenon.

Oprah Betrays Women, Again

  Having announced that she’s giving up her TV show in 2011, Oprah is not headed toward retirement. She is redirecting her efforts, which will include a cable TV series focused on an L.A. housewife who dumps her family to pursue a life of erotic adventure. Is this any surprise, dear reader? Oprah never was the girlfriend, true [...]

Our Conspicuous Consumption

  In a previous entry, a reader named Joel complained that it isn’t possible for young hard-working professionals in their twenties to form families without some dramatic changes in social policy. To this, readers and I responded that young couples would be wise to accept relative poverty for the sake of having children while they are young. This, we [...]

The Breast: Sacred and Profane

  Can you imagine any portion of the male anatomy deified as the female breast has been in recent years? If there were ten-foot phallic symbols lining the mall in Washington, would we be any more in thrall to masculinity than we are to femininity in our current state of outright breast-worship? Last week, newspapers and TV [...]

The Demented Sarah Palin Debate

  Andrew Sullivan proclaims in his Atlantic Monthly blog that Sarah Palin is a “delusional fantasist” and a “deeply disturbed person.” At the other extreme, a writer for the American Thinker says Palin is the victim of sexual violence by leftists. To say Sarah Palin is a polarizing figure is an understatement. The vile attacks of her [...]

In Praise of Depression

  From Milton’s Il Penseroso: But let my feet never fail,                                    To walk the studious Cloysters pale, And love the high embowed Roof, With antick Pillars massy proof, And storied Windows richly dight, Casting a dim religious light. There let the pealing Organ blow, To the full voic’d Quire below, In Service high, and Anthems [...]

Should Homemakers be Grateful to Feminists?

  Apparently some people think they should. Lydia Sherman writes: I get comments all the time, intended for my blog, Home Living,  telling me that any freedom I have is due to the efforts on the part of feminists of the past. This comes from a false view of history and a false view of [...]